1. When people say things that could be lines in movies.
2.  Being with someone you don’t have to speak with to know what they are feeling.
3. Running around night clubs
4. Eating deserts 
5. Looking at ridiculous record covers
6. Folding my clothes
7. Washing the dishes to jazz
8. Making poached eggs
9. Psychoanalysing people as I lie in my bed
10. Throwing away clutter
11. Vintage clothing
12. Staring and getting lost in paintings
13. Dancing with strangers
14. Helping people
15. The colours blue, violet, and mustard
16. Eating at nice restaurants
17. sitting and thinking by myself
18. Finishing a book
19. Finding money on the street
20. Getting messages from old friends
21. Taking naps with my fluffy cat
22. Planning and list making
23. Polishing shoes
24. Creating new recipes
25. My best friend
26. Watching leaves move in trees
27. Inspiration and making artwork for hours
28. A gentle smile of a girl
29. The feeling of cotton shirts
30. How people all have a distinctive scent
31. My music collection
32. The smell of lavender, lemon, and cinnamon
33. Buying gifts
34. Having a lot of money in my account
35. Thinking of all the possibilities as the day fades

The what? We’ve all been so close to the girl we want that all you can smell is her, but all she can smell is a needy friend. Get onto her radar as a potential boyfriend. No, better than that – as the one she desperately wants.

How to get it: It’s a myth that this is a bad thing. You have a better chance as a mate than any random would, so don’t lay all your cards on the table immediatly.
1/ Treat her like the friend that she thinks she is to you. Play it cool. Pat her on the back when you meet up like you would a mate, check out other women when you’re with her.
2/ Show her you’re sexual. Talk about your love life even if it doesn’t exist: “I went to a lovely Italian restaurant last night.” She immediately asks, shocked, “with who?” to which you mysteriously respond, “a friend”.
3/ Remember that as friends she should want you to get a girlfriend so talking about that shouldn’t be a problem.
4/ Take away the feeling she could have you whenever. Like you treat other mates, don’t always answer her calls, take your time texting back if at all, you chose what to do. 

Closing the deal: The move has to be spontaneous. Dial up the tension playfully by flirting subtly – hitting each other gently, tickling, nudging, just make it physical like a boyfriend and girlfriend would do comfortably, with no pressure.

The finale: Get eye contact before the kiss. When it happens pull away after a bit and say, “what are we doing?” then kiss some more and say, “it’s wrong” then kiss on. This way you have taken away any pressure on her to be in a relationship and she will think, why doesn’t he want to date me? Then she’ll want you to want her.

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